Science says parents of successful kids have this in common

Science says parents of successful kids have this in commonScience says parents of successful kids have this in commonMost parents want their kids to stay out of trouble, do well in school, and go on to live successful lives as adults.And while there isnt a set recipe for raising successful children, psychology research has pointed to a handful of factors that predict success.Unsurprisingly, much of it comes down to the parents. Keep reading to take a look at what parents of successful kids have in common.Drake Baer contributed to a previous version of this article.They make their kids do choresIf kids arent doing the dishes, it means someone else is doing that for them, Julie Lythcott-Haims, former dean of freshmen at Stanford University and author of How to Raise an Adult said during a TED Talks Live event.By making them do chores - taking out the garbage, doing their own laundry - they realize I have to do the work of life in order to be part of life, she previously told Busines s Insider.Lythcott-Haims believes kids raised on chores go on to become employees who collaborate well with their coworkers, are mora empathetic because they know firsthand what struggling looks like, and are able to take on tasks independently.They teach their kids social skillsResearchers from Pennsylvania State University and Duke University tracked mora than 700 children from across the US between kindergarten and age 25 and found a significant correlation between their social skills as kindergartners and their success as adults two decades later.The 20-year study showed that children who could cooperate with their peers, be helpful to others, understand their feelings, and resolve problems on their own were far more likely to earn a college degree and have a full-time job by age 25 than those with limited social skills.Those with limited social skills also had a higher chance of getting arrested, binge drinking, and applying for public housing.This study shows that helping chil dren develop social and emotional skills is one of the most important things we can do to prepare them for a healthy future, said Kristin Schubert, program director at the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, which funded the research, in a release.From an early age, these skills can determine whether a child goes to college or prison, and whether they end up employed or addicted.They have high expectationsUsing data from a national survey of 6,600 children born in 2001, University of California at Los Angeles professor Neal Halfon and his colleagues discovered that the expectations parents hold for their kids have a huge effect on attainment.Parents who saw college in their childs future seemed to manage their child toward that goal irrespective of their income and other assets, Halfon said.The finding came out in standardized tests 57% of the kids who did the worst were expected to attend college by their parents, while 96% of the kids who did the best were expected to go to college.Th is falls in line with another psych finding The Pygmalion effect, which states that what one person expects of another can come to serve as a self-fulfilling prophecy. In the case of kids, they live up to their parents expectations.They have healthy relationships with each otherChildren in high-conflict families tend to fare worse than children of parents that get along, according to a University of Illinois study review.A nonconflictual single-parent family is better for children than two-parent families with conflict, according to the review.But, conflict between parents before and after a divorce can affect children negatively.Another study in this review found that 20-somethings who experienced divorce of their parents as children still report pain and distress over their parents divorce ten years later.Theyre educatedA 2014 study from the University of Michigan found that mothers who finished high school or college were more likely to raise kids that did the same.Pulling from a group of over 14,000 children who entered kindergarten from 1998 to 2007, the study found that higher levels of maternal education predicted higher achievement from kindergarten to eighth grade.A different study from Bowling Green State University suggested that the parents education levels when a child is 8 years old significantly predicted the education and career level for the child fur decades later.They teach their kids math early onA 2007 meta-analysis of 35,000 preschoolers across the US, Canada, and England found that developing math skills early can turn into a huge advantage.The paramount importance of early math skills - of beginning school with a knowlumineszenzdiodege of numbers, number order, and other rudimentary math concepts - is one of the puzzles coming out of the study, coauthor and Northwestern University researcher Greg Duncan said. Mastery of early math skills predicts not only future math achievement, it also predicts future reading achievement.They develo p a relationship with their kidsA 2014 study of 243 children born into poverty found that those who received sensitive caregiving in their first three years did better in academic tests in childhood than those who did not receive the same parenting style.Those children also had healthier relationships and greater academic achievement.This suggests that investments in early parent-child relationships may result in long-term returns that accumulate across individuals lives, coauthor and University of Minnesota psychologist Lee Raby said.They value effort over avoiding failureWhere kids think success comes from also predicts their attainment.Over decades, Stanford University psychologist Carol Dweck has discovered that children (and adults) think about success in one of two ways. Over at Brain Pickings, Maria Popova says they go a little something like thisA fixed mindset assumes that our character, intelligence, and creative ability are static givens that we cant change in any meaning ful way, and success is the affirmation of that inherent intelligence, an assessment of how those givens measure up against an equally fixed standard striving for success and avoiding failure at all costs become a way of maintaining the sense of being smart or skilled.A growth mindset, on the other hand, thrives on challenge and sees failure not as evidence of un-intelligence but as a heartening springboard for growth and for stretching our existing abilities.Dwecks mindset theory has attracted valid critiques over the years, but the core tenant of believing that you can improve at something is important to encourage in children.The moms workAccording to research out of Harvard Business School, there are significant benefits for children growing up with mothers who work outside the home.There are very few things, that we know of, that have such a clear effect on gender inequality as being raised by a working mother, Harvard Business School professor Kathleen L. McGinn, who led the s tudy, told Working Knowledge.Daughters of working mothers went to school longer, were more likely to have a job in a supervisory role, and earned more money - 23% more compared to peers raised by stay-at-home mothers.The sons of working mothers also tended to pitch in more on household chores and childcare, the study found.But, working mothers arent necessarily spending every waking minute outside of work with their childrenWomen are more likely to feel intense pressure to balance child rearing with workplace ambitions. Ultimately, they spend more time parenting than fathers do.A 2015 study found the number of hours that moms spend with kids between ages 3 and 11 does little to predict the childs behavior, well-being, or achievement.In fact, the study suggests that its actually harmful for the child to spend time with a mother who is sleep-deprived, anxious, or otherwise stressed.Mothers stress, especially when mothers are stressed because of the juggling with work and trying to fi nd time with kids, that may actually be affecting their kids poorly, study co-author and Bowling Green State University sociologist Kei Nomaguchi told The Washington Post.It could be more beneficial to spend one fully-engaged hour with a child than spend the whole evening half-listening to your kid while scrolling through work emails.They have a higher socioeconomic statusOne-fifth of American children grow up in poverty, a situation that severely limits their potential.Its getting more extreme. According to Stanford University researcher Sean Reardon, the achievement eu-agrarpolitik between high- and low-income families is roughly 30% to 40% larger among children born in 2001 than among those born 25 years earlier.As social scientist Dan Pink wrote, the higher the income for the parents, the higher the SAT scores for the kids.Absent comprehensive and expensive interventions, socioeconomic status is what drives much of educational attainment and performance, Pink wrote.This article first appeared on Business Insider.Science says parents of successful kids have this in commonMost parents want their kids to stay out of trouble, do well in school, and go on to live successful lives as adults.And while there isnt a set recipe for raising successful children, psychology research has pointed to a handful of factors that predict success.Unsurprisingly, much of it comes down to the parents. Keep reading to take a look at what parents of successful kids have in common.Drake Baer contributed to a previous version of this article.They make their kids do choresIf kids arent doing the dishes, it means someone else is doing that for them, Julie Lythcott-Haims, former dean of freshmen at Stanford University and author of How to Raise an Adult said during a TED Talks Live event.By making them do chores - taking out the garbage, doing their own laundry - they realize I have to do the work of life in order to be part of life, she previously told Business Insider.Follow Ladder s on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moreLythcott-Haims believes kids raised on chores go on to become employees who collaborate well with their coworkers, are more empathetic because they know firsthand what struggling looks like, and are able to take on tasks independently.They teach their kids social skillsResearchers from Pennsylvania State University and Duke University tracked more than 700 children from across the US between kindergarten and age 25 and found a significant correlation between their social skills as kindergartners and their success as adults two decades later.The 20-year study showed that children who could cooperate with their peers, be helpful to others, understand their feelings, and resolve problems on their own were far more likely to earn a college degree and have a full-time job by age 25 than those with limited social skills.Those with limited social skills also had a h igher chance of getting arrested, binge drinking, and applying for public housing.This study shows that helping children develop social and emotional skills is one of the most important things we can do to prepare them for a healthy future, said Kristin Schubert, program director at the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, which funded the research, in a release.From an early age, these skills can determine whether a child goes to college or prison, and whether they end up employed or addicted.They have high expectationsUsing data from a national survey of 6,600 children born in 2001, University of California at Los Angeles professor Neal Halfon and his colleagues discovered that the expectations parents hold for their kids have a huge effect on attainment.Parents who saw college in their childs future seemed to manage their child toward that goal irrespective of their income and other assets, Halfon said.The finding came out in standardized tests 57% of the kids who did the worst were e xpected to attend college by their parents, while 96% of the kids who did the best were expected to go to college.This falls in line with another psych finding The Pygmalion effect, which states that what one person expects of another can come to serve as a self-fulfilling prophecy. In the case of kids, they live up to their parents expectations.They have healthy relationships with each otherChildren in high-conflict families tend to fare worse than children of parents that get along, according to a University of Illinois study review.A nonconflictual single-parent family is better for children than two-parent families with conflict, according to the review.But, conflict between parents before and after a divorce can affect children negatively.Another study in this review found that 20-somethings who experienced divorce of their parents as children still report pain and distress over their parents divorce ten years later.Theyre educatedA 2014 study from the University of Michigan fo und that mothers who finished high school or college were more likely to raise kids that did the same.Pulling from a group of over 14,000 children who entered kindergarten from 1998 to 2007, the study found that higher levels of maternal education predicted higher achievement from kindergarten to eighth grade.A different study from Bowling Green State University suggested that the parents education levels when a child is 8 years old significantly predicted the education and career level for the child four decades later.They teach their kids math early onA 2007 meta-analysis of 35,000 preschoolers across the US, Canada, and England found that developing math skills early can turn into a huge advantage.The paramount importance of early math skills - of beginning school with a knowledge of numbers, number order, and other rudimentary math concepts - is one of the puzzles coming out of the study, coauthor and Northwestern University researcher Greg Duncan said. Mastery of early math s kills predicts not only future math achievement, it also predicts future reading achievement.They develop a relationship with their kidsA 2014 study of 243 children born into poverty found that those who received sensitive caregiving in their first three years did better in academic tests in childhood than those who did not receive the same parenting style.Those children also had healthier relationships and greater academic achievement.This suggests that investments in early parent-child relationships may result in long-term returns that accumulate across individuals lives, coauthor and University of Minnesota psychologist Lee Raby said.They value effort over avoiding failureWhere kids think success comes from also predicts their attainment.Over decades, Stanford University psychologist Carol Dweck has discovered that children (and adults) think about success in one of two ways. Over at Brain Pickings, Maria Popova says they go a little something like thisA fixed mindset assumes tha t our character, intelligence, and creative ability are static givens that we cant change in any meaningful way, and success is the affirmation of that inherent intelligence, an assessment of how those givens measure up against an equally fixed standard striving for success and avoiding failure at all costs become a way of maintaining the sense of being smart or skilled.A growth mindset, on the other hand, thrives on challenge and sees failure not as evidence of un-intelligence but as a heartening springboard for growth and for stretching our existing abilities.Dwecks mindset theory has attracted valid critiques over the years, but the core tenant of believing that you can improve at something is important to encourage in children.The moms workAccording to research out of Harvard Business School, there are significant benefits for children growing up with mothers who work outside the home.There are very few things, that we know of, that have such a clear effect on gender inequality as being raised by a working mother, Harvard Business School professor Kathleen L. McGinn, who led the study, told Working Knowledge.Daughters of working mothers went to school longer, were more likely to have a job in a supervisory role, and earned more money - 23% more compared to peers raised by stay-at-home mothers.The sons of working mothers also tended to pitch in more on household chores and childcare, the study found.But, working mothers arent necessarily spending every waking minute outside of work with their childrenWomen are more likely to feel intense pressure to balance child rearing with workplace ambitions. Ultimately, they spend more time parenting than fathers do.A 2015 study found the number of hours that moms spend with kids between ages 3 and 11 does little to predict the childs behavior, well-being, or achievement.In fact, the study suggests that its actually harmful for the child to spend time with a mother who is sleep-deprived, anxious, or otherwise stressed .Mothers stress, especially when mothers are stressed because of the juggling with work and trying to find time with kids, that may actually be affecting their kids poorly, study co-author and Bowling Green State University sociologist Kei Nomaguchi told The Washington Post.It could be more beneficial to spend one fully-engaged hour with a child than spend the whole evening half-listening to your kid while scrolling through work emails.They have a higher socioeconomic statusOne-fifth of American children grow up in poverty, a situation that severely limits their potential.Its getting more extreme. According to Stanford University researcher Sean Reardon, the achievement gap between high- and low-income families is roughly 30% to 40% larger among children born in 2001 than among those born 25 years earlier.As social scientist Dan Pink wrote, the higher the income for the parents, the higher the SAT scores for the kids.Absent comprehensive and expensive interventions, socioeconomic st atus is what drives much of educational attainment and performance, Pink wrote.This article first appeared on Business Insider.You might also enjoyNew neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happyStrangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds10 lessons from Benjamin Franklins daily schedule that will double your productivityThe worst mistakes you can make in an interview, according to 12 CEOs10 habits of mentally strong people

Doing this 1-minute change could literally save your life

Doing this 1-minute change could literally save your lifeDoing this 1-minute change could literally save your lifeDaylight saving timeofficially ended and while your phones and computers automatically fell back one hour later, you still have to check your ovens,microwaves, and most importantly, your smoke detectors - at least according to panzerschrankty experts.The two times a year we change our clocks also serve as a valuable reminder to change the batteries in ourfire alarms. Only 57% of Americans have followed best practice and done so in the past six months, according to a survey of more 1,000 people conducted byServiceMaster Restore.When you go around your house this week, youll want to replace the batteries in each detector, advises disaster restoration expert Peter Duncanson. Bonus Doing it now will also prevent the purposefully annoying chirping reminder later on.Lift, twist, or remove the cover. (In some cases, the whole alarm will come off from a base.)Replace the battery with a brand-new one. Most machines use9-volt batteries.Close and snap the detector back into place.Press the test button to make sure its working. You should hear a beep or chirp sound.Also keep an eye out for the date of manufacture stamped on the device.Smoke detectors lose their efficacy after 10 years and require replacingjust like carbon monoxide alarms. Upgrade to thenewer lithium battery smoke detectorsand you wont have to worry about replacing the batteries at all for up to a decade.To keep your home as safe as possible, use interconnected smoke alarms so that when one sounds, they all sound. At a minimum, make sure you have smoke alarms installed inside each bedroom, outside each sleeping area, and on every level of the home (including the basement), theNational Fire Protection Associationrecommends.Monitoring your houses safety measures is now more important than ever.The average time to escape a home fire hasgone from 17 minutes to just three minutes or lessin the past few decades due to the increased use of synthetics in furniture and home construction, according to safety organization UL.And withThanksgivingonly three weeks away, dont forget to inspect your fire extinguisher for any signs of corrosion, missing pull-pins, and/or changes in the pressure gauge. Its always a good idea to have a working one on hand - especially when your brother-in-law attempts to deep-fry theturkey.This article firstappeared on ShondaLand.

How to make the most of your money on any budget

How to make the most of your money on any budgetHow to make the most of your money on any budgetYou check your bank account, the available balance isnt what you were expecting it to be, but you have no idea what you spent your hard-earned cash on. Sound familiar? All of us have probably experienced the above at some point in our lives, and it sucks when you realize that payday is still a couple of weeks away.Its easier than ever to lose track of your money when it doesnt physically leave your wallet, but there are many ways that you can take control of your spending. Implement the following five tips into your routine to make the most of your money on any budgetFollow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moreStop buying lunch at workIt may be convenient, but the savings you can make by cutting out this habit may surprise you. For example, lets say you spend $6 a day on lunch, thats $30 a week. In a year (Ill use 48 weeks to allow time for holiday or sickness), youve spent $1,440, and thats not considering any snacks or drinks you might buy throughout the day Instead of buying lunch, try taking leftovers from the night before or prepping your lunches over the weekend.To make the most of the money youre nownotspending on lunch, put $6 away in a savings account each day and reap your reward in 12 monthsUse a spending trackerThis is a financial life changer. If you really want to see where your money goes, track exactly what you spend each day either in a notepad or on an Excel spreadsheet. It doesnt take a lot of time (15 minutes at the end of each day), and it will help you spot any spending habits that may be sneakily eating into your money, like the four takeaways you order every weekTake advantage of loyalty schemes and membership cardsIf you tend to shop in specific stores, you should check to see whether they offer loyalty schemes where you can earn points every time y ou shop.This is great for grocery shopping because food is something you need to buy often, and it wont cost anything extra to collect points. Depending on the store, they may offer vouchers or coupons in exchange for your points every few months or so.Alternatively, if youre a film buff like me, see if your local cinema offers a membership card that allows you to watch unlimited films for one tischset fee every month. At my cinema, paying to see two films every month costs more than the monthly membership fee, so its a no brainer.Become a discount code queenBefore you order anything online, do a quick search to see if there are any active discount codes that you can use on your purchase. If you cant find any, its always a good idea to sign up for the stores newsletter as you tend to get a discount off your first order.Check your emails for any old discount codes sitting in your inbox. Even if they supposedly expired on a date long gone, always test the code I recently used a discou nt code from a year ago to get 10 percent off a shirt AND free delivery. Winner winnerSwitch to a leistungspunkt card that rewards youIf you regularlyuse a credit card, you might want to consider switching to a provider that rewards you for spending.Note this is not an excuse to go wild and buy things you dont need.Instead, you can use the credit card for your everyday purchases and pay it off at the end of the month. Stores like Amazon offer credit cards that earn you Reward Points for your purchases which you can collect and then spend on Amazon.You can follow Chantelle on Instagram atsprinklesofspiceand find her on Twitter atchantellefairbn .This article first appeared on A Girl in Progress.You might also enjoyNew neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happyStrangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds10 lessons from Benjamin Franklins daily schedule that will double your productivityThe worst mistakes you can make in an interview, acco rding to 12 CEOs10 habits of mentally strong people

4 Red Flags to Pay Attention to While Job Hunting

4 Red Flags to Pay Attention to While Job Hunting4 Red Flags to Pay Attention to While Job HuntingThe job search process is as much a way for the applicant to see if he wants to work for a company as it is a chance for companies to see if they want to hire him. Just like the interviewer cant find out everything hed like about the person hes interviewing, the candidate cant predict for sure whether hell be happy in the position. Keeping an eye out for a few red flags may be helpful.1. Lack of preparation during the interview.Its a bad sign when the job applicant shows that he or she is unprepared during an interview, but the saatkorn can be said of hiring managers. If a candidate is kept waiting long after his scheduled interview time is told at the last minute or repeatedly that the company needs to reschedule the meeting or discovers that the interviewer was unprepared or inattentive during the meeting, the applicant may start to wonder if the company is similarly disorganized in ot her aspects.2. Negative impressions of company culture during the interview.An interview provides applicants with the chance to enter their prospective office and get a glimpse of the employers company culture. The candidate can observe if employees are interacting with each other and working collaboratively or if there is little talk in the office and most people keep to themselves and work independently. The candidate can also get a gut feeling of the office atmosphere by observing whether workers appear rushed and stressed or, on the other extreme, appear to be wasting time and doing little productive work. These glimpses can tell the candidate a lot about what he can expect if he is hired, and whether hell feel comfortable with the company culture.3. Low salary relative to job description.A low salary for a job description that includes numerous responsibilities and a hefty workload and requires ample experience isnt only a aufgabe because it makes it more difficult to pay the b ills - its a sign of how the company values its workers.4. High turnover.If the last few people to hold the job quit after just a few months, the candidate can reasonably expect that the same thing may happen to him. A high turnover rate indicates that the company offers jobs, but not necessarily careers, and is fairly comfortable with frequently replacing its workers rather than investing in them.Published Courtesy of Brafton

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